Ever wondered if you’re an annoying boyfriend?
Well, here’s a
list and if you indulge in any of these, rest assured, you’re definitely an
annoying boyfriend material.
Ever considered
yourself to be an annoying boyfriend?
Relationships are
tricky, but some things are instinctive.
In love, boyfriends
can be nice at times and at other times, they can be really annoying.
But seriously, there
are a few things that most boyfriends do that are just not excusable at all!
So are you one of
them?
Are you an annoying
boyfriend?
Here are thirteen
stubborn and annoying traits of an annoying boyfriend.
There may be a few
more, but these pointers definitely top the most annoying things boyfriends do.
#1 Take me in the ass
This is just not good.
We’re inviting you through the front door, so why the heck would you try poking
your way through the back door?
Remember, an anal bang
may seem exciting after watching a lot of porno, but almost all girls hate that
kind of thing.
It’s creepy and almost
any woman who’s tried it would tell you she feels like rushing to the loo each
time you take her by surprise.
It’s scary, knee
buckling and just gross. So stop pestering your girlfriend constantly to try
new things in bed that could freak her out or even scare her. Deep throat,
well, that’s an annoying boyfriend question too!
#2 Getting drunk on a
date
Women just don’t like
it when their boyfriend gets zonked out on a date. When you date a woman,
remember your chivalry and understand that you have to protect her and take
care of her.
Drink, but never to
the point where you can’t drive back home or stand up straight.
When you go clubbing
and get wasted like a heap of dung, it scares your girlfriend. The man she
loves and trusts to take care of her is unconscious and helpless, and that’s
just unacceptable and shattering. Repeat it a few times, and she may leave your
annoying ass on the dance floor and go home with someone else!
#3 When you’re
indifferent or rude
Women hate this about
their boyfriends. Most men can be so frustrating at times. Ask a man “how do I
look?” and almost always, he says “nice, yeah… umm hmm…” or “how many times
do I have to tell you the same thing?!” without even looking at his
girlfriend’s attire for a second! [
We know we’ve asked
you how we look the last time we wore the same dress, but seriously, we like to
be reassured and critiqued now and then. After all, we’re dressing up to look
good in your arms. Can’t you help us feel good about ourselves when we’re going
out? Is taking a few seconds out to help your girlfriend really too much to
ask?
#4 Girlfriends don’t
always need a sex machine
Every time we try to
kiss you passionately or try to touch you all over, it doesn’t always mean we
want you to take your clothes off in a flash and diveboard into bed.
We do love a good romp
in bed, but sometimes we just want to have a good time feeling you up. It’s not
foreplay, it’s sexy cuddling and girlfriends like it!
#5 When you get bored
shopping
We understand that you
take five minutes to pick an entire ensemble. Yeah, go nominate yourself for a
world record. But you do understand that your girlfriend takes way longer than
that, don’t you? So why is it always a surprise when you go shopping for more
than a couple of hours with your girlfriend?
We don’t invite you to
shop with us all the time, but on the rare occasion that we do invite you, do
play nice. We’ll definitely give you a treat for being nice later!
#6 Exchanging glances
with other girls
Now don’t get me
wrong, your girlfriend doesn’t really care if you stare at another girl when
you’re all by yourself. She may exchange glances at guys when she’s alone too.
But when you’re around
your girlfriend, learn to respect her by not straying your eyes on every
cleavage or butt that presents itself in front of you. Most guys just can’t
restrict their ogling eyes even when they’re around their girlfriend and try
exchanging glances with some other girl. That’s demeaning to girlfriends, and
makes us feel insecure. After all, if you can stare hard at other girls in
front of your girlfriend, who knows what you’d do behind her back? Now that’s
definitely an annoying boyfriend trait.
#7 When you ask, but
don’t listen
Do you really take
your girlfriend seriously, and think she’s capable of giving you the right
advice? Girls hate it when their boyfriends ask for advice, and then drift
away, look lost or make up their own mind without even thinking about what
their girlfriend has been talking about. You’d listen to your guy friends, so
why do you assume your girlfriend is incapable of giving you a good solution to
your problem?
Straight answer, ask
us a question and listen to us when we answer it. Or just don’t ask us for our
opinion! We really don’t like advising a damn wall.
#8 Flirting with your
girlfriend’s friends
We know men can’t
resist flirting with a good looking girl. And your girlfriend does know when
you’re flirting with one of her friends. Firstly, you’re being a jerk when you
do that.
What’s even more
annoying is when your girlfriend tells you not to flirt with her friend, and
you say you never flirted at all, and it was her friend who was hitting on you
all the while. You know, if you ever say that, that’s the lamest no-balls
excuse you could ever give your girlfriend.
#9 When you’re being a
sexist
Men have epic egos, we
understand that. But man up and accept that your girlfriend can be an achiever
too. If she ever gets a promotion, do you tell her it’s because she’s sexy or
because her boss likes her?
And secondly, when
we’re trying to make a point or argue with you, don’t call us a drama queen or
ask us whether it’s that time of the month. That’s just you being a sexist. If
you can’t win a fight, don’t use a low blow.
#10 Comparing your girlfriend
to someone else
We hate it when you
compare us out of the blue to your ex or even one of our friends. “Why can’t
you dress up like your friend Suzy?”, “My ex used to do that for me all the
time…”, “You know, my friend Kat is so much more understanding that you are…”
Now that kind of a
conversation is never going to end well. And your girlfriend will just have one
answer for you. Then go the f**k out with her! And yeah, that’s the last thing
you’ll hear from her until you apologize.
#11 When you don’t
take care of your girlfriend
When men get ill, they
may be capable of dragging themselves into bed and lying low until they feel
better. But it doesn’t work that way with women. We need and absolutely love a
lot of TLC.
If you’re ever nursing
your girlfriend back to good health, try to be nice around her. Girls hate it
when their boyfriends say they’ll hang out with them and start to act cranky
after an hour. When you’re spending time with a sick girlfriend, don’t neglect
her completely and stare mesmerized at the television, don’t roll your eyes
when she asks you for more tissues or a foot rub, and definitely don’t get
grumpy or grumble when she asks you for a second bowl of soup
Doing any of that
hurts your girlfriend, infuriates her and makes her feel worse. If you can’t
take care of her, make an excuse and get out, if possible out of her life!
#12 Boyfriends who
love to postpone chores
One of the strangest
things about guys is their ability to sink into a comfy couch and become a part
of the furniture within minutes. And once a guy is comfortable on a couch, it’s
almost impossible to drag him out, for any reason whatsoever!
And when a girl gives
her boyfriend any chore or requests him to do anything, he assures her that
he’ll do it in a bit, and that never really happens. If you can’t participate
in any chores around the house or even pick up after yourself after dirtying
the entire living room, go back to your *bachelor pad* and build a beer
pyramid. Why the heck would you annoy your girlfriend by being a lethargic
walrus?
#13 The angry
boyfriend and his shortcomings
Girls hate annoying
boyfriends who blame their shortcomings on their girlfriend. It’s pathetic and
really irritating. Ever lost your way and blamed your girlfriend because she
didn’t give you the right directions? Suffered a stomach ache and blamed your
girlfriend because she chose the restaurant? Or my personal favorite, lost your
erection and got limp in bed in the middle of a sexual romp and blamed your
girlfriend because she wasn’t *into it*?
If you’re blaming your
girlfriend because you’re an angry idiot, seriously, man up and take
responsibility instead of blaming your girlfriend for her food choice, her
built-in GPS system or her sexual vibes, will you?
So how many of these
things do you indulge in? A few or almost all?
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